I’ve always been fascinated by the different ways my cats interact with me as a cat parent. Knowing why they do what they do can be difficult, but figuring out why they do what they do can be satisfying. Whether they brush my face with their paw, which they frequently do when we’re cuddling or I’m staring at my computer desk, it’s a perplexing action.
Why is my cat rubbing his paw across my face?
It’s your cat’s way of getting your attention, waking you up, or demanding food. They could be communicating their love, trust, and leaving their fragrance on you. They could, however, be requesting some personal space.
Continue reading if you want to learn more about what your cat is trying to say to you when they place their paw on your face.
To show you cat love
Cats, like people, utilize physical contact to express affection to other cats and humans. If your cat reaches out to touch your face while you’re snuggling on the sofa, it might be a sign of cat love, especially if your cat is purring loudly.
According to cat behavior expert Pam Johnson-Bennett, cats who sit near to you, touch you, and softly blink their eyes at you are showing you how much they love you. If your cat reaches out to gently stroke your face, it’s most likely a sign of cat affection.
To play with you
If your cat reaches out to touch you and then flees, he may be playing a game with you. According to Pet Place, this is especially true if your cat is bored and doesn’t have any toys to play with.
Invest in some entertaining cat toys that are packed with catnip and emit a tantalizing perfume that cats can’t get enough of. Toss them around the house for your cat to pursue. You may also use a laser pointer to attract your cat’s interest, or dangle cat toys from a string to give your feline companion something to pursue.
Your cat is using their paws to scent you.
Scent glands are found in the paws of cats. When your cat rubs his or her paw on your face or kneads your face, they are transmitting part of their fragrance to you. Other cats will recognize you as theirs if they come into touch with you. It’s like to a cat scratching something.
Another sort of territorial marking behavior is this. Accept this act as a charming expression of devotion, and be happy that your cat doesn’t use its claws on your face the way it does your sofa (speaking from personal experience on this one). Your cat wants everyone to know that you are their property. If you didn’t realize it before, this is your cat’s way of expressing, “I own you human.”
Your cat wants you to wake up.
Our animal pets’ desire to give us love taps may appear lovely and lovable, but it isn’t necessarily the tender gesture we think it is. It may just be our cat telling us that it’s time to wake up and feed me. Your cat may be bored and want you to wake up and spend time with them even if it isn’t dinner time.
Instead of wailing in my ear, sticking his bum in my face, or hanging his big Persian tail over my nose, I wish my cat would use this tactic. It would be much pleasant and less startling to wake up with a delicate paw to the face. It’s a good day for everybody who is woken by soft paw touches on the cheek! There are a lot of other methods for a cat to gain your attention that aren’t nearly as enjoyable.
Your cat trusts you and is snuggling up against you.
This is a major thing if your cat likes to sleep with his or her paws on your face. When cats are sleeping, they are most vulnerable. This is a great indication of trust if they snuggle up to you while sleeping and touch your face with their feet.
When your cat is asleep and reaches his or her paws out to approach your face, the same thing happens. This is significant because it indicates that your cat is entirely at ease and secure with you. Your cat is well aware that you will not put them in danger when they sleep. This is a huge compliment.
Your cat is forming a personal space bubble.
So, your cat has sat next to you, and he or she is so adorable that you can’t help but offer them kisses or nose boops. Your cat places its paws on your face after a few of kisses and merely leaves them there while keeping a close eye on you. Even though your cat enjoys and appreciates your kisses, they may become tired of them.
They may keep you away from them by putting their paws on your face. Your cat doesn’t bite or scratch you because it recognizes that what you’re doing is a kind gesture. But, like any picky cat, once they’ve had their fill of your affection, they’re done.
They use their paws to establish personal space between themselves and their master. Try not to take it personally, and remember that a cat will quickly alter their opinion about your kisses. For a time, they just needed some breathing room.
Your face looked like a comfortable place to rest their feet.
While we would want to credit a lovely purpose or a very cat-like cause for our cat’s behavior, this is not always the case.
It’s possible that your cat stretched and landed on your face, where it stayed. Consider how many times you’ve stretched out and stayed in that posture because it felt wonderful or because you were too sluggish to shift. Cats may be similarly obnoxious. For the first time, our feline companions may be acting in an unselfish manner.
Your cat could be returning the favor of you petting them.
Cats appreciate head rubs, chin scratching, ear massages, and a variety of other affectionate gestures. It should come as no surprise that they’d like to repay the favor. So, when they touch your face, they are essentially “petting” you back.
When you think about it, this is rather adorable. It’s comforting to know that they appreciate and adore the affection we show them. And they are so grateful that they want to repay the favor in the only manner they know how.
Your cat is testing you.
Some people may be surprised to learn that cats do not instinctively trust their owners. We must win their confidence. This is simpler with kittens than it is with older cats, in my experience. When I have a cat that I’ve kept since they were a kitten, they instantly warm up to me and welcome me. It’s almost as if I had a child. You’ve been such an important part of their lives for so long that they don’t know anybody else exists.
Older cats are a completely other animal. They have developed routines and personalities. You may not know their whole history if you adopted them from a shelter or rescue.
It’s possible that the cat came from a bad home and is wary of humans. It is our responsibility to try hard to gain their trust. Putting their paws on your face without first using their claws might be a manner of putting you to the test. If your cat can keep their paws where they are and you don’t try to harm him or her, he or she may come to tolerate you. Make certain you pass the exam!
To get your attention.
Yes, cats want care, and to be honest, many of them require far more attention than most people believe cats require, bordering on being “attention whores” in the process.
Some individuals adore it, while others despise it.
While you may like it or struggle with a cat who requires a lot of attention depending on how much you feel you can provide, this behaviour does appear to be a technique for the cat to get your attention.
As a form of mimicry, copying your petting actions and returning them back to you.
The belief that cats replicate our activities, such as the way we sit or stand, or simply in general behaviors that they witness and mimic back to us, may have some merit.
If this imitation is ever confirmed to exist, I’m sure caressing our faces and stroking or patting them would be at the top of the list of behaviors that would fall under this heading.
As a form of showing trust – that you won’t bite his or her paw although it’s next to your face.
Along the same vein, yet utterly different and even the polar opposite of the previous point. For this to make sense, a cat should be able to imagine you biting him or her with your mouth.
This portion of the notion does not bother me; cats clearly understand that a mouth is for food, and if you pretend to bite a cat who has never been “play” bitten before, the cat would generally shriek and try to flee, terrified.
However, the cat must consider placing his or her paw near your lips while believing that it will not be bitten, and consider whether or not this is a manner of demonstrating trust?
This seems like a reach to me, but let me know in the comments if you think cats are capable of such a complex idea.
Maybe it’s something more subliminal than what I’m thinking? As if they trust you enough to put their hands near something that may harm them.
Because he or she was stretching & your face was a comfortable resting place once done.
Cats love to stretch, and who can blame them? Stretching is excellent for us, too, and I’m sure we’d have a lot less stress in our shoulders if we did it as much as a cat!
When a cat stretches, he or she may rest a paw in an unusual location, so why not your face?
If a cheek or a nose is selected, it’s a warm, soft, lovely cushioned region. To me, that makes logic.
To tell you he/she wants something, like food or to be let out.
According to many pet parents, this appears to be a very typical, very evident means of getting a message through.
If your cat wants something specific from you, such as opening the front door to let him or her out, refilling kibble, or handing over some snacks, you’ll almost certainly know why your cat touches your face because you’ll almost certainly go to do the thing he or she wants from you after being ordered (and possibly pestered if you were sleeping at the time).
Because he or she is reaching toward you affectionately and your face happens to be the closest part of your body.
Bjorn, one of my cats, stretches his arm out straight and demands affection.
How do I know he wants to be cuddled? Because if I embrace him right thereafter, he’s overjoyed and stops behaving badly.
When we’re sitting on the sofa and he’s already nestled up next to me contentedly, he’ll stretch out toward me warmly.
If my face was resting in the position where he was stretching gently toward me, I’m sure he’d just let his paw rest on my face instead of on my leg, hand, or wherever he was reaching.
Again when holding him/her: to prevent you from giving kisses if you do and your cat dislikes them.
This rationale was also published someplace online, and I never would’ve thought of it unless it was mentioned.
Avery, our first cat, adores kisses. He understands they’re a sign of affection and will never cringe or flee when we kiss him; in fact, if we’re holding him and kissing him, he’ll press his face against the rims of our glasses, putting him within reach of our glasses.
That said, our second cat, Bjorn, despises being kissed – most likely because he hasn’t gotten used to them yet, although he hasn’t recoiled as much as he did to be kissed on the head in recent months.
He was also scared of being “eaten,” and if you made “om nom” noises near his face, he would flee and weep.
Again, he’s growing used to this sort of play, so we’re anticipating that, like Avery, he’ll be absolutely unfazed and not budge at any of it sooner or later. He’s almost there.
But, in the meanwhile, if he’s already being lifted up and isn’t a huge lover of kisses, I can imagine him preferring to keep Thomas’ face at a safe distance, if only to avoid kisses, which may happen a lot when cuddling are being explored.
Hopefully, this will not be the case for long, and he will come to regard kisses as a kind of human affection in the same way as Avery does.
To scent you and mark you as his or her own.
Cats have scent glands on the pads of their paws, so when they contact your face with their upper lip and whiskers, they leave their fragrance on you and mark you as their territory.
This, in my opinion, might be a component of the overall plot, but it isn’t enough of an explanation on its own.
Whatever the reason for your cat’s fascination with your face, one thing is certain: cats want to lick it because they trust you.
If cats didn’t like it, they wouldn’t do it!
If it’s a defense mechanism, on the other hand, you should pay attention to your cat’s request. After all, we must understand that before prohibiting a certain behavior, we must evaluate what that action represents and develop solutions to meet their requirements.
Now tell us, does your cat ever place his paw on your face, and have you ever figured out why?